Using Self-Help Law Books |
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Introduction |
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Marriage ``Ins and Outs'' |
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Do You Really Want a Divorce? |
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Divorce Law and Procedure |
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Getting Your Spouse to Go to Mediation |
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What to Expect in Mediation |
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Evaluating Your Situation |
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Relations with Your Spouse |
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An Introduction to Legal Forms |
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Filing with the Court Clerk |
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What Is a Legal Separation? |
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Creating a Separation Agreement |
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Filing Your Separation Agreement |
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How Custody Should Be Decided |
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How a Judge Decides Custody |
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Preparing for a Custody Trial |
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Coping with Your Parenting Plan |
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Sworn Statement of Removal of Barriers to Remarriage |
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Affirmation (Affidavit) of Regularity |
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Request for Judicial Intervention |
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Affidavit Pursuant to Domestic Relations Law 75-j |
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Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law (Referee's Report) |
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Certificate of Dissolution |
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Procedure Differences from Uncontested Divorce |
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Request for Judicial Intervention |
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Note of Issue and Certificate of Readiness |
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Collecting Information and Obtaining Subpoenas |
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Child Custody and Visitation |
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When You Can't Find Your Spouse |
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Types of Alternative Service |
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Searching for Your Spouse |
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Forms and Procedures for Alternate Service |
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When You Can't Afford Court Costs |
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Protecting Yourself, Your Children, and Your Property |
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Automatic Temporary Orders |
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Temporary Support and Custody |
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If Your Spouse Filed for Divorce |
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Waiting for It to Be Final |
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Adjusting to Being Single |
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Helping Your Children Adjust |
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Changing Things After the Divorce |
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Appendix A: New York Domestic Relations Law |
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Appendix B: Forms |
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Index |
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