About the Downloadable Assignments
PracticePlanners® Series Preface xv
Acknowledgments xvii
Introduction 1
Section 1: Anger Control Problems 4
Exercise 1.A Alternatives to Destructive Anger 5
Exercise 1.B Anger Journal 9
Exercise 1.C Assertive Communication of Anger 12
Section 2: Antisocial Behavior 15
Exercise 2.A How I Have Hurt Others 16
Exercise 2.B Letter of Apology 19
Exercise 2.C Three Acts of Kindness 21
Section 3: Anxiety 22
Exercise 3.A Analyze the Probability of a Feared Event 23
Exercise 3.B Past Successful Anxiety Coping 26
Exercise 3.C Worry Time 29
Section 4: Attention Deficit Disorder (Add)—Adult 31
Exercise 4.A Problem-Solving: An Alternative to Impulsive Action 32
Exercise 4.B Self-Monitoring/Self-Reward Program 36
Exercise 4.C Symptoms and Fixes for Add 40
Section 5: Bipolar—Depression 43
Exercise 5.A Early Warning Signs of Depression 44
Exercise 5.B Identifying and Handling Triggers 47
Section 6: Bipolar—Mania 51
Exercise 6.A Keeping a Daily Rhythm 53
Exercise 6.B Recognizing the Negative Consequences of Impulsive Behavior 59
Exercise 6.C What Are My Good Qualities? 63
Exercise 6.D Why I Dislike Taking My Medication 67
Section 7: Borderline Personality 69
Exercise 7.A Journal and Replace Self‑Defeating Thoughts 70
Exercise 7.B Plan Before Acting 77
Section 8: Childhood Trauma 79
Exercise 8.A Changing From Victim to Survivor 80
Exercise 8.B Deep Breathing Exercise 84
Exercise 8.C Feelings and Forgiveness Letter 87
Section 9: Chronic Pain 90
Exercise 9.A Pain and Stress Journal 91
Section 10: Cognitive Deficits 93
Exercise 10.A Memory Aid—Personal Information Organizer 94
Exercise 10.B Memory Enhancement Techniques 99
Section 11: Dependency
Exercise 11.A Making Your Own Decisions 103
Exercise 11.B Satisfying Unmet Emotional Needs 105
Exercise 11.C Taking Steps Toward Independence 109
Section 12: Dissociation
Exercise 12.A Describe the Trauma 112
Exercise 12.B Staying Focused on the Present Reality 115
Section 13: Eating Disorders and Obesity 117
Exercise 13.A A Reality Journal: Food, Weight, Thoughts, and Feelings 118
Exercise 13.B How Fears Control My Eating 125
Section 14: Educational Deficits 128
Exercise 14.A My Academic and Vocational Strengths 129
Exercise 14.B The Advantages of Education 132
Section 15: Family Conflict 134
Exercise 15.A Applying Problem Solving to Interpersonal Conflict 135
Exercise 15.B A Structured Parenting Plan 138
Section 16: Female Sexual Dysfunction 141
Exercise 16.A Factors Influencing Negative Sexual Attitudes 142
Exercise 16.B Study Your Body: Clothed and Unclothed 146
Section 17: Financial Stress 149
Exercise 17.A Plan a Budget 150
Section 18: Grief/Loss Unresolved 153
Exercise 18.A Creating a Memorial Collage 154
Exercise 18.B Dear _______________: A Letter to a Lost Loved One 157
Section 19: Impulse Control Disorder 160
Exercise 19.A Impulsive Behavior Journal 161
Section 20: Intimate Relationship Conflicts 164
Exercise 20.A How Can We Meet Each Other’s Needs and Desires? 165
Exercise 20.B Positive and Negative Contributions to the Relationship: Mine and Yours 170
Section 21: Legal Conflicts 172
Exercise 21.A Accept Responsibility for Illegal Behavior 173
Exercise 21.B Crooked Thinking Leads to Crooked Behavior 176
Section 22: Low Self-Esteem 178
Exercise 22.A Acknowledging My Strengths 179
Exercise 22.B Replacing Fears With Positive Messages 182
Section 23: Male Sexual Dysfunction 185
Exercise 23.A Journaling the Response to Nondemand, Sexual Pleasuring (Sensate Focus) 186
Section 24: Medical Issues 191
Exercise 24.A How I Feel About My Medical Treatment 192
Exercise 24.B The Impact of My Illness 195
Section 25: Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (Ocd) 197
Exercise 25.A Interrupting Your Obsessions/Compulsions 198
Exercise 25.B Making Use of the Thought-Stopping Technique 202
Exercise 25.C Reducing the Strength of Compulsive Behaviors 206
Section 26: Panic/Agoraphobia 210
Exercise 26.A Coping Card 211
Exercise 26.B Monitoring My Panic Attack Experiences 214
Section 27: Paranoid Ideation 216
Exercise 27.A Check Suspicions Against Reality 217
Section 28: Parenting 219
Exercise 28.A Learning to Parent as a Team 220
Exercise 28.B The Two Sides of Parenting 224
Exercise 28.C Using Reinforcement Principles in Parenting 228
Section 29: Phase of Life Problems 231
Exercise 29.A What Needs to Be Changed in My Life? 232
Exercise 29.B What’s Good About Me and My Life? 235
Section 30: Phobia 237
Exercise 30.A Four Ways to Reduce Fear 238
Exercise 30.B Gradually Reducing Your Phobic Fear 242
Section 31: Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (Ptsd) 245
Exercise 31.A How the Trauma Affects Me 246
Exercise 31.B Share the Painful Memory 249
Section 32: Psychoticism 252
Exercise 32.A What Do You Hear and See? 253
Section 33: Sexual Abuse Victim 255
Exercise 33.A A Blaming Letter and a Forgiving Letter to Perpetrator 256
Exercise 33.B Picturing the Place of the Abuse 259
Section 34: Sexual Orientation[TB6] Confusion 261
Exercise 34.A Journal of Sexual Thoughts, Fantasies, Conflicts 262
Exercise 34.B To Whom and How to Reveal My Homosexuality 269
Section 35: Sleep Disturbance 272
Exercise 35.A Sleep Pattern Record 273
Section 36: Social Anxiety 276
Exercise 36.A Becoming Assertive 277
Exercise 36.B Restoring Socialization Comfort 281
Section 37: Somatization 283
Exercise 37.A Controlling the Focus on Physical Problems 284
Section 38: Spiritual Confusion 287
Exercise 38.A My History of Spirituality 288
Exercise 38.B Your Spiritual Inheritance Inventory 291
Section 39: Substance Use 295
Exercise 39.A Aftercare Plan Components 296
Exercise 39.B Identifying Relapse Triggers and Cues 300
Exercise 39.C Relapse Prevention Planning 305
Exercise 39.D Relapse Triggers 309
Exercise 39.E Substance Abuse’s Negative Impact Versus Sobriety’s Positive Impact 312
Section 40: Suicidal Ideation 316
Exercise 40.A Journal of Distorted, Negative Thoughts 317
Exercise 40.B No Self-Harm Contract 321
Exercise 40.C Strategies to Resist Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings 324
Exercise 40.D The Aftermath of Suicide 327
Section 41: Type A Behavior 330
Exercise 41.A Developing Noncompetitive Values 331
Section 42: Depression-Unipolar This Section needs to move up to be in alphabetical order 333
Exercise 42.A Identify and Schedule Pleasant Activities 334
Exercise 42.B Negative Thoughts Trigger Negative Feelings 337
Exercise 42.C Positive Self-Talk 342
Section 43: Vocational Stress 344
Exercise 43.A A Vocational Action Plan 345
Appendix A: Alternate Assignments for Presenting Problems 347
Appendix B: Alphabetical Index of Exercises 358